I Help Women Master Self-Love
+ attract a loving partner
If you're like most of my clients,
You've read the books, watched the youtube videos, secretly googled about love & dating endlessly, and maybe even worked with a therapist or took an online course. But, you are:
Even more confused about love & how it works
Secretly wondering if there's something wrong with you
Starting to worry you may not find someone in time
More afraid of ending up alone with each passing month
You're tired of trying to figure it out on your own and have considered giving up on love altogether because after all, you are highly independent and self-sufficient anyway, so it's not like you need a man.
But you would love to be in a relationship.
You just don't know how to make that happen.
It feels like you've tried everything and you're skeptical of anything or anyone being able to help you at this point.
When you see couples in love,
are you hopeful & inspired, yet thinking to yourself :
other people can have love, but not me because:
1) All the good ones are taken 6) It would've happened already
2) I've tried & failed every time 7) I'm afraid of losing my freedom
3) I'm not attracted to anyone 8) I'm not (pretty, thin, feminine) enough
4) My success intimidates men 9) The kind of partner I want doesn't exist
5) It's probably too late at my age 10) I'm too broken & have too much baggage
You’re smart, productive, successful, you have so much love to give. You may even know you’re a great catch, but you keep attracting unavailable men (or no men) and are baffled by the fact that you’re still freakin single. Arggh.
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.
The real problem is that your parents, teachers, culture, society, and the tv you grew up watching did not teach you about real love. These left you with unrealistic, disempowering, fantasy-like ideas about relationships.
And if you’re like most women, your parents didn't even talk to you about sex or your period. You’ve had no choice but to go through life guessing how the f*ck love works. And when it doesn’t work, you make it mean something bad or wrong about you. Or, you blame the men.
You feel like you’re MISSING something but don’t know what the heck it is. Love may feel like a puzzle or a mystery that cannot be solved.
Another problem is that you’ve been trying to figure it out on your own through ruminating, googling for answers, and asking friends for advice... - which doesn't provide you with the high-level guidance, personalized feedback, and solutions for your specific situation.
If you’ve been doing talk therapy, kudos to you for your commitment to your healing. Revisiting your past is an important part of healing initially. This is the aim of therapy.
The next phase of your healing requires not just discussing your past, but also creating a new future. This is the aim of coaching.
There's nothing wrong with you...
Can I be real with you right now? Let's not beat around the bush here. You're not getting any younger.
And if you want kids, that clock is ticking. I don't want you to miss out on this or any other precious thing your heart dreams of.
Typically, the older you get, the harder it is to be vulnerable with someone or to trust them fully, as you've become too accustomed to living a highly self-sufficient life.
The older you get the more self-sufficient you become, which isn't a bad thing. Self-sufficiency, however, tends to have a lot of self-protection built into it.
This can make it hard to trust someone new and be vulnerable, which gets in the way of the intimacy and connection you want.
On the flip side, maybe you get too close too quickly to whoever shows interest in you, lowering your standards out of fear of not finding someone else or someone better.
At times you may feel you're doing everything right but not getting the results you want, which doesn't make sense because you're so freakin capable and smart at work.
When the disappointments of your love life (or lack thereof) drain you of your energy and power, your confidence can begin to diminish in other areas of your life.
To compensate, you may try to prove your worth by working or doing MORE to stay busy. But there's only so much fulfillment in achievement. As a recovering over-achiever, I know what that's like.
The thing is, busyness, netflix, social media, food, wine, or whatever, is no longer able to keep you distracted from the sadness, loneliness, and self-doubt that may be under the go-go-go lifestyle.
At times you might even avoid friends and family so you don't have to talk about why you're still single and how you feel about that. This decision to isolate keeps love out of your heart even more.
You know that if these undeniably painful emotions don't get dealt with, they're going to threaten your performance and stability in the ONE place you have so much success: your career.
Or maybe it already has. That can't be good.
You certainly don't want to give up on yourself or love. AM I RIGHT?
So here you are, bold and courageous enough to find the high-level PRO
mentorship you know you require.
Because that's what ambitious, driven women do.
When MORE achievement is not enough to feel good, to feel valuable, and to cover up the emptiness inside, it's time to dig in with a lot of love & compassion.
Let's write you a brand new love story.
Let me tell you why you can't afford
to go on like this
Get to the bottom of what's not working and learn exactly how to change it in months (not years)
Raise your self-love & self-confidence to new heights you didn't even know existed (which completely transforms your relationship to men, love and most importantly you)
Express your needs, wants, standards, and upsets calmly with power and grace so you feel heard and supported.
Feel absolutely confident in your enoughness, lovability, and value so you never have to compromise or settle for less.
Know the difference between lust and genuine love, between someone healthy or toxic, so you don't waste time with the wrong person.
Learn how to deal with any emotion or challenge effectively and become masterful at transforming any situation into a blessing.
Imagine what it would feel like to
You're in the Right Place if...
You feel you're doing everything right and not getting the Results, or you know your issues but don't know how to fix them.
If you're really serious about growing and evolving massively in the Shortest time possible, I'm probably the Right mentor for you.
This is not the slowest or cheapest option, so if that's what you're looking for, traditional therapy may be a good start for you.
This is the Smart, efficient option for High-Performers and Over-Achievers who already know career success and won't be satisfied with anything less than the Highest Vision & Fulfillment of themselves in all areas of life.
You Value investing in the Fast Track to success.
Schedule a Consult or Session With Me!
We will identify your love blocks and show you how my self-love attraction method can help you love yourself more than you ever thought possible and attract your dream man within a year if you're ready for that.
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